40 Years of Impact. A Legacy Built Together.
What began with one selfless act of compassion by Mary and Bernie Selz has grown into a movement that has touched the lives of thousands. For 40 years, Thomas House Family Shelter has been more than a place to stay—it’s been a place to heal, to grow, and to start over.
From that first apartment rented for a family in need to now serving over 65 families annually with housing, therapy, career support, youth programs, and prevention services—our story is one of community-powered transformation.
This milestone isn’t just about time. It’s about people. It’s about every donor who believed in second chances. Every staff member who walked beside a family through crisis. Every volunteer, board member, intern, partner, and graduate who helped build what Thomas House is today.
This is your celebration, too.
Together, we’ve built more than shelter.
We’ve built futures—brick by brick, year by year.
And the best part? We’re just getting started.
$40 for 40 Years
In honor of our 40th anniversary, we’re inviting supporters to give $40 or more to help us continue our life-changing work. Your gift will directly support families on their journey from crisis to stability.
40th Anniversary Events: Join Us All Year Long

Back to School Supply Drive
Join us for our Annual Back-to-School Supply Drive. By donating backpacks, notebooks, pencils, school uniforms, or giving a monetary gift, you’re ensuring that every child in our program starts the school year with confidence, and the resources they deserve.
June 1st - July 18th

40th Anniversary Gala
We invite you to our Annual Celebration “Brick by Brick: Paving our Way to Emerald City.” Join us at The Court by Timeless Venue in Fountain Valley for an evening of elegance, inspiration, and impact.
Sat, September 20, 2025
6:00 PM to 10:00 PM

November Food Drive
Join us for our Annual November Food Drive! We’ll be collecting canned goods and nonperishable food items all month long to help restock our pantry and ensure families at Thomas House have access to nourishing meals.
November 3rd - November 28th

End of Year Appeal
Join us this December for a season of giving, community, and hope. Support families during the holidays by donating to a program or service. Be part of our journey to make a difference.
November 1st - December 31st

Toy Drive & Adopt-a-Family
We’re collecting new, unwrapped gifts to help bring joy to our families this holiday season.
Interested in giving a more personal touch? Our Adopt-a-Family program will also be underway for those who would like to make a direct impact.
December 1st - December 15th
Share Your Thomas House Story
Were you once a resident? A volunteer? A long-time supporter or past staff member? We want to hear from you!
As part of our anniversary, we’re collecting memories, stories, and reflections that capture the heart of Thomas House. Selected stories may be featured on our website, social media, or gala materials.
Faces of Legacy
Bernie Selz
Founder
Mary Selz
Founder
Sister Kathy Stein
Former Executive Director
Teresa Quick
Former Board Member
Sister Louise Micek
Former Board Member
Tom Orbe
Former/Current Board Member
Barbara Orbe
Former Board Member
